Before you go to sleep, drink a cup of warm milk with honey in it. Then put the almonds and raisins under your pillow when you go to sleep that night. Think about your soul mate and what he might look like as you drift of to sleep. If you have a person in mind, think about him, otherwise, think about what your ultimate soul mate will look like.
When you wake up in the morning you should have better clarity on what your soul mate looks like and if he is someone you already know. Simple dream rituals can help you gain clarity on your situation. When you fall asleep thinking about your soul mate, your mind will open up and allow itself to wander as you sleep. Your mind can wander and piece together elements that you may not have put together during the waking hours. When you first wake up, you should have more clarity about your potential soul mate.